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My ‘Boyfriend Hunting’ Experience At Coza Church

As I travel around, one thing I love to do is play the part of a ‘secret shopper’ and visit as many places as possible. Churches are not spared from my mischievous itinerary. One Sunday morning, I spontaneously jumped into a rickety danfo in my 3-inch heels with the aim of attending any random church that […]

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Joy Ogunneye: How To Dress Up An Unwanted Grey T-Shirt

  Like most people, I absolutely love freebies.There is just something about receiving free goodies that I can’t seem to get enough of. And finding this unwanted Calvin Klein grey t-shirt in a pile of...

I Want To CHEAT!

This is not a hypothetical situation. It’s 100% real. It has crossed my mind maybe 5 times in the past 2 days. I even brought it up with someone at work. But I’m struggling...

#WomenWhoCook: How To Make Homemade Iced coffee

  I love to start my day with a cup of iced coffee, homemade or not. This is how I make my iced coffee but you could adjust the quantity if you want.   What...

4 Reasons Why Women Should Date Other Women

By Waiki Harnais Last year, I was asked out on a few dates* by women; some of whom were pretty much strangers. It was like going back to the times when I was single...

Lizzy Idahosa Found Guilty Of  Forcing Two Nigerian Women Into Prostitution & Making Them Eat Snakes 

According to a report by Mail Online; A woman has been found guilty of people trafficking after she forced two Nigerian women into prostitution by making them eat snakes in an African black magic...

Facebook And Apple Will Pay Female Employees Who Choose To Freeze Their Eggs

Facebook and Apple want to make it easier for their female employees who want to focus on their careers and have kids later in life. They are offering to pay their female employee who...

Caterer Of Life! This Woman Has Cooked For 8 Nigerian Presidents

Katherine Adamu is one of the Nigerians that got the member of the Federal Republic (MFR) award recently. Katherine started out as a Caterer in the Kaduna State Government House and was transferred to the State House in...

How to Marry a Millionaire

It hard to get by in life and be truly happy when you have to worry about something as basic as being able to afford to go to a dentist. Money problems are one...

Watch | How To Handle Marriage Pressure From Family Members As A Single Lady

Are you wondering how to deal with aunties, uncles, cousins and other family members who are constantly putting you under pressure to get married? This hilarious video by Ariyike Akinbobola offers some useful tips.

Will Grace Mugabe Succeed 90 year-old Husband As President?

PRESIDENT Robert Mugabe’s wife, Grace, shocked members of Zanu PF party supporters in Masvingo when she publicly said that she wants “the throne”.  “When I was approached to come into politics to lead the women,...

“Men Should Respect Themselves And Try To Resolve Issues Without Beating” – Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire

In a recent interview with Chidi Obineche for Sun News , the Deputy Governor of Lagos State, Princess Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire  talks about domestic violence and how it is one of the major problems Nigerian women...

Clarion Chukwurah’s Message To Nollywood Wannabes and Smart-ass Business Men

According to a report by Vanguard Newspaper, Nollywood actress, Clarion Chukwurah recently sent in a letter titled “A Wake up Call to Nollywood” where she expressed her dissatisfaction over the exploitation of Nollywood actors by...

4 Kinds Of People That Baffle Me On Lagos Roads

   These are a few of the things I see on the road practically every day and I just do not get it. Today’s post is dedicated to things I do not understand and...

Mother Flees Home With 5 Year-Old Daughter To Avoid Circumcision Rites By An Ekiti Royal Family

It is so sad that despite the massive information out there about the terrible effects of Female Genital Mutilation,  some families in Nigeria still continue to practise this harmful tradition. In Ushi-Ekiti, a mother...

Hafsat Abiola: The Feminist Who Could Change Nigeria | Watch

In a new documentary titled The Supreme Price, Joanna Lipper followed the work  of civil rights activist, Hafsat Abiola.  Hafsat Abiola founded the Kudirat Intiative For Democracy after her parents  M.K.O. and Kudirat Abiola...

Yours For Free! TY Bello Makes Her Uplifting New Album Available For All

  “The Morning Song Book” is  TY Bello’s latest album and she has made is available for free . Here is her message on why the album is free; In 2009 I hit this...

“There Is A Difference Between Sex & Lovemaking” – Uche Iwuanyanwu

“Making love” and having sex” are two terms that are often used interchangeably because many people think they mean the same thing. In an interview with Vanguard Newspaper, Uche Iwuanyanwu, a Nollywood actress explains...

She Turned Her Mess Into A Message And Makes Money Doing What She Loves

By Tiphani Montgomery I was that girl. The one who dreamed impossible dreams, despite my reality showing me cold hard facts of why it would never happen. I was that girl. Who hated to...

Your Life Matters Too! Will Your Story Die When You Do?

Many of us think we will write our memoirs – someday. Maybe if we do something fabulous, outrageous, something which alters the course of history. Maybe if we become famous. Or maybe just when...

40kg Off! Watch Nelly Agbogu’s Inspiring Weightloss Story

From US Size 28 to 18, Nelly Agbogu has been on an incredible weight loss journey. In this interview with Glory Edozien she talks about her struggles and victories.

‘It Is Not A Case Of Witch-hunting’ – Google Explains Why They Shut Down LIB

Google’s Manager for Communications and Public Affairs, Anglo-Phone West Africa, Taiwo Kolade-Ogunlade has explained to Punch Newspaper why they shut down Linda Ikeji’s blog: “To respect the rights of copyright holders, Google clearly spells...
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Now You Have It! Nigerian Meal Plan for Weight Loss

  You want to eat Nigerian meals and still stay fit and healthy? Here is a meal plan from 9jafoodie to help do just that!   Down load PDF version here ————————————————————————————- Writer: Ronke Adeyemi...

Chimamanda Adichie Talks About ”Willful Forgetting”

In an interview with Tavis Smiley on American TV station PBS, Chimamanda Adichie talks about ”willful forgetting” A concept that may be responsible for how we ignore or choose to forget issues that we...
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Ebola Survivors Advised To Use Condom After Recovery

Peter Piot, a professor at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine and a discoverer of Ebola in 1976, has advised that survivors of Ebola should use condom and not have unprotected days...

Young CEO: Kemi Adetiba Shares How She Started In The Entertainment Industry

In this episode of Ndani TV’s Young CEO,  music video director and producer, Kemi Adetiba shares the story of how she started in the entertainment industry and she has some great advice for start-ups!

Will One Of These Five Women Be The First Elected Nigerian Female Governor?

Gbemisola Saraki, former senator and younger sister of former governor of Kwara State, Bukola Saraki, has announced her decision to run for  the position of Kwara State governor in February 2015. She will be...
Nigeria's Minister of Petroleum Diezani Allison-Madueke speaks at a media briefing on a new gas price regime in the capital of Abuja

Diezani Alison-Madueke Commends President Jonathan For Appointing Women Into Leadership Positions

Mrs. Diezani Alison-Madueke, The Minister of Petroleum Resources, was recently honoured with the Forbes Magazine Best of Africa Award In leadership in New York. During the award ceremony she dedicated the award to women,...

@BerryChocoLatte: When You Ask Me If I’m Pregnant…

I get this question more times than I like, and when the question or assumption comes out of anyone’s mouth or text, these are the things that go through my mind… It seems like...

Things I Would Tell My Teenage Self About Boys, Rebellion & More

 If  you could talk to the teenage version of yourself, what will you say? What do you know now that you wished you had known when you were younger? In this  interesting  and down...

Seyi Obasi: Wishing Others Would Fail Is Not A Strategy For Success

Imagine this! It’s the Champion leagues season and your club is playing in the finals. You have prayed. You have calculated. You have entered the psyche of the coach and you have a fool...